Purpose, Goals, and Motivation

Lately, I have been doing quite a bit of thinking about my music career. I've had some great conversations with fellow musicians, and friends about our career paths. I've also had long conversations with my private music students about their futures and whether or not to make music their career. Everything seems to boil down to the answers to three questions: What are your talents? What do you hope to accomplish in life? Where does your heart lie?

Each one of us has many different talents. This is a great thing, but it can also make it very difficult to decide on a career path. I think that there is a tremendous amount of pressure to pick careers that seem "normal" according to society. In other words, people tend to pick careers based off of their desire to please other people...even if it makes them miserable. I personally feel that this is one of the key reasons that there are so many unhappy people in the world. If a person truly cares for us, they will not expect us to sacrifice the talents that make us happy. If your talent is hockey and you desire to play professionally...go for it! If you are a fabulous cook and you desire to become a chef...please do it! It is not enough to "sort of have interest" in cooking and decide to be a chef because it is a family business or something that you feel pressured to do. You will eventually tire of your career and you will do a lousy job. Realize that it is all about YOUR desire. If you let other people decide your life, you will have regrets. Your talents have a purpose. They are not a mistake. Think carefully on your many talents and explore the possibilities.

The next step is to consider your life goals with your talents in mind. If you have music talent, but also desire to have a family, you may want to pick a career that would allow you to have a good family life while satisfying your musical desires. Touring with a band is not always the easiest thing for families, but anything is possible with the right plans. The key is to plan ahead and not lose sight of your talents/goals. Denying your talents, will make you just as miserable as failing to plan how your talents will work with your life goals.

Finally, consider where your heart lies. Think about the things that bring a smile to your face. Be honest with yourself. Don't let people or money be the deciding factor. The fear of a lack of money and/or greed becomes a deciding force that is difficult to ignore. However, I would argue that if you have the talent, passion, and excellent work ethic...you can make it to the top of your field. You will have financial and personal success as a result. Those that stay at the bottom of their field, tend to be the people that have chosen their career for the wrong reasons. They are miserable, they make everyone else miserable, and their pay checks reflect their misery since they aren't capable of doing an excellent job due to a lack of heart. Employers would be wise to hire those that demonstrate their passion for a particular field. If you could do anything you'd like...what would you do?

Life is short. Get motivated. Find out what makes yourself tick. There is no point in spending each day, for the rest of your life, at a job you hate. Start searching for your dreams now. Tomorrow is too late. Yes, it will be difficult and it will cost you more than money (check my earlier blog posts and you'll see what it has cost me). Apathy is not the answer. You must do the work to achieve what you want. If you are miserable, you have no one to blame but yourself. Everyone has excuses. Rich or poor, successful or broken, we all have 24 hours in a day. All of the excuses in the world will not change that fact. You can start taking steps right now to achieve anything you'd like. It all becomes a question of just how badly do you want it?


"Life is not easy for any of us. But what of that? We must have perseverance and above all confidence in ourselves. We must believe that we are gifted for something and that this thing must be attained." -Curie

Still Searching

Things are moving along with the new band that is about two hours away. I will be learning their new music over the weekend. While we may be using some of my originals, the bulk of the recording will be their music. I'm okay with this, and very excited to have the opportunity, but my intentions remain the same. I still plan to record and perform my music, but I think it will have to be with a different band. So why am I bothering with the new band? Well, this band happens to need a singer and I happen to need a band. We are trying to help each other out, and see what comes of it. Our styles are a bit different, but it works. I genuinely like their music. I'm just not giving up on mine. So, I am still searching for talented musicians that would really like to have this opportunity. I've thought so much on this whole experience, and I really don't feel ready to throw in the towel on my own music. I don't think that would be a very smart idea. I've had so much positive feedback on my music, that I feel encouraged to continue with it. I also love writing and performing those songs. I just need to find the right musicians. My drummer has stayed on through all of this. We have patiently watched audition after audition. Some people are actually very good, but lack the time commitment that we need. Others just want to jam here and there, but lack the discipline to be in a serious band. The location of this group is not promising. The area is not inclined to excellent musicians. It is not a large city with a focus on the arts. There are some incredible musicians here, but most of them are already tied up with other projects. The pool of serious musicians is quite small. I consider making a move, but the timing isn't right for that. The frustration that I feel is continuing to grow. Time is money. I don't want my songs to become extinct before they ever get off the ground. I have my life in a good place that allows me the time I need to focus on a band that will perform/record my music. It's just too bad that I can't find that band.

Music and the Future

Music is such an amazing thing. I'm not sure how people would function without it. I've talked to so many people lately that have told me how much music means to them. Some people say it is great stress relief for them to listen to their favorites and swear that it changes their mood from negative to positive. Others have found comfort in listening to a song that describes their current situation. Music is used to motivate athletes to perform better and get the most out of their training. Music therapists are aware of the therapeutic effects it has on patients. Employers have found that their employees are more productive when they listen to music. People of all ages have certain tunes that they connect with. It seems that music is an important and positive part of life in every culture. So, I ask you...why are our schools ensuring that music doesn't have a future? Schools are cutting their music programs and/or not allowing adequate rehearsal time...all to save a buck. We end up destroying the things that are good in this world, because we fail to see the big picture. Take a look at some of your favorite artists and see how they got their start in music. Many will confirm that they started to take an interest in music due to their school music programs. Consider the role that music plays in your life. Try to go without listening to music...no radio, no I-pod, put down the guitar. Drive to work in silence. Work out at the gym without music. Imagine movies and TV without music. No more concerts. Enjoy your parties and gatherings without music. Now do me a favor and see to it that music isn't being cut from your school. Support your local music programs, music teachers, and performers. Pay attention when a government official decides to cut funding for the arts. I bet they listen to music on their way to work too. Don't allow music to become extinct. It is one of the few things left that we all enjoy in various ways...but we take it for granted. Thanks.

Change of Plans

As I have yet to find the right musicians in my current location, I have decided to work with a band in the next city down the road...a couple hours away. They are familiar with my style and I'm familiar with theirs. We are in the initial stages of recording an album. While the drive is less than ideal, especially with the rising costs at the gas pump, I feel that it will definitely be worth the cost. I have a good feeling about this band and they are feeling good too. We all have the same goal and understand the workload that is before us. New gear has been purchased and new songs are underway. The recording studio/producer knows what we want to achieve. I feel like there is an unspoken, intense level of commitment and the desire to succeed. So far, so good!

Ups and Downs

I am still waiting patiently for things to become more consistent with my band. I have auditioned quite a few musicians but have yet to find the right sound, style, or dependable individuals. When I explain to people that this week I'm in need of a guitar player, and last week I needed a bass...now I need both...they don't quite understand why I am still pursuing this dream. I will not quit. I know the right musicians are out there. In the mean time, I have been working with the band members that are consistent. It has come to the point that I might need to hire the missing pieces so that I can complete a recording. I hesitate to do this since it will cost a ton and the studio musicians will not understand the music the way a rehearsed band would. In the mean time, I am still auditioning musicians and writing some songs that I'm really excited about!

I have recorded piano/vocal versions of Lzzy Hale's (Halestorm) "Familiar Taste of Poison"  and Amy Lee's (Evanescence) "Good Enough" . I also included one of my originals "My Response".  If the links do not work...just search for Keri Weber on YouTube. I am looking forward to the day when I can share the band versions of my originals with you. I appreciate all of the support and encouragement you have given me. I love what I do, but it gives me an extra boost to know that there are people that support me. It means so much. Thank you!

Changes

Yet another change is about to occur with my band.  As of this past week, I need a new guitar player.  We have also decided to add a rhythm guitar.  While I'm very excited to listen to the auditions, I'm frustrated that things are once again up in the air until we find the right musicians.  I had thought we were doing really well as a group.  Everyone seemed content and happy with things.  Apparently this wasn't the case. My guitar player has decided to pursue other interests.  We only wish that we would've known that he wasn't dedicated to the group earlier on.  However, I believe there is a reason for everything and I certainly have been able to learn something from every musician I've ever worked with.  It hasn't been a waste of time and I refuse to view it as such.

I am so grateful for the musicians that are currently in my band.  They really are talented and on top of everything, they are great people.  I hope to find similar qualities in our new guitar players.

The Band...finally!

After some trial and much error...I finally have what seems to be a stable band (knock on wood)!! I'm thrilled and breathing a sigh of relief! I'm looking forward to the progress of this group and the entire bonding experience that comes along with band life.

Working with many personalities in close quarters for an extended period, can be quite challenging. I've also discovered that it can be a great motivator...as I listen to the progress of each musician and the creativity that each person brings to the table. I enjoy stepping back and learning from what these great musicians have to offer. I'm humbled over and over again. The collaboration that takes place during writing sessions, always fascinates me. It is magical!

Recently, I discovered something else that this band adds to the mix. We look out for each other...and keep each other in line. The other night we were practicing and I was running the rehearsal like a tyrant. I actually brought in cover songs and had the band play them. Gasp! We aren't a cover band! I had gotten myself into a funk like no other and had started modifying my original band plans. Needless to say, my bandmates informed me that I was in fact, losing my mind. They reminded me that this band doesn't do covers. They reminded me of why I began this project from the beginning. They refused to accept anything less. I could've easily been offended, but they were dead on. I was stunned that they were concerned enough to say something and basically rescue the band from my wrong thinking. That was very cool. I respect them for speaking up and showing that they care about the outcome of this group instead of just walking away.

I'm looking forward to this coming week, as we will be writing some new music and polishing the old. More updates soon!